*BLISSFUL
HOME TONIC*
*Secret 1*
Everyone you marry has a weakness.
Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness
you can't get the best out of his strength.
*Secret 2*
Everyone has a dark history. No one
is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into
someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old
things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the
future.
*Secret 3*
Every marriage has its own
challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone
through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.
Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in
times of need. Remember the vow *For better for worse*. In sickness and in
health be there.
*Secret 4*
Every marriage has different levels
of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be
equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient,
work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
*Secret 5*
To get married is declaring war.
When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some
enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
_Be ready to fight to maintain your
marriage zone._
*Secret 6*
There is no perfect marriage. There
is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work
daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper
service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to
danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our
marriages.
*Secret 7*
God cannot give you a complete
person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in
order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved
through prayer, love and Patience
*Secret 8*
Getting married is taking a huge
risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may
change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may
fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might
divorce.
*Secret 9*
Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent.
It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together.
Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain
thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose
to remain married. God hates divorce.
*Secret 10*
Every marriage has a price to pay.
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you
withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are
not a candidate for a blissful home.
*So today let us pray for our
marriages and ask God to help us where we are lacking in the marriage. May God
bless us all.*
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