<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504</id><updated>2011-11-27T16:53:08.603-08:00</updated><title type='text'>LEGACY</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>28</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-8507639746454688686</id><published>2011-10-05T11:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-05T11:51:34.414-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Islamic Brotherhood and Good Company</title><content type='html'>IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE BENEFICENT, THE MERCIFUL.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(Concise Translation)&lt;br /&gt;Praise is due to Allah the Lord of the worlds, best blessing and perfect peace upon the noblest of mankind Muhammad bin Abdullah, his household, company and all the followers. &lt;br /&gt;O student brothers, hope of the future and generation of the expected triumph, the noble presence. &lt;br /&gt;May peace, mercy and blessings of Allah be upon you.&lt;br /&gt;The topic of this speech “Islamic Brotherhood and Good Company” is a tangible topic and a great principle among basic faithful principles of Islamic for heavy weight it possesses and connotes from divine word “ verily faithful are nothing else than brothers” Al – Hujurat : 10. By this, brotherhood and faith are indivisible pair in Islam and among fruits is good company in the cause of Allah. Henceforth, I wish to entertain this topic through the following elements:- &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Linguistic meaning of brotherhood: &lt;br /&gt; Lexicon defines brotherhood as kinship and maternity relation from father only, or from mother without father. This is the original meaning for the word brotherhood except that it also used for kinship, friendship and company according to lexical books like As – Sihhah and Al – Qaamusul – muheet among others; so they call friend brothers, and partners in work brother etc.&lt;br /&gt;2. Legend concept of brotherhood: &lt;br /&gt;It has been previously explained that brotherhood means direct kinship relation from both father and mother except that this kinship may be near or far as they usually says for example: “And to Thamud their brothers Salih” Hud : 61 among other similar usages; the least of which is that Human Brotherhood which involves all Adam’s children and al – Qur’an confirms this: &lt;br /&gt;“ O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable  people of you with Allah is that who has At – Taqwah. Verily, Allah is all – knowing, well-Acquainted Q49;13. But this al-Quran itself recommends another type of brotherhood for us in the same surah, this is the Islamic brotherhood which excels other even that of kinship brotherhood in the sight of Allah; He says “the believers are nothing else than brothers ( in Islamic religion)  So, make reconciliation between your brothers and fair Allah, that you may receive mercy”. Qur’an 49: 10.&lt;br /&gt; We all comprehend from this explanation that brotherhood has two kinds kinship brotherhood (terrestrial) and it lapses most of the time and Islamic brotherhood (this which emanate from true faith this serves someone both in this world and the hereafter). Says Allah: “Neither your relative nor your children will benefit you on the Day of Resurrection. He will judge between you”. Qur’an 60:3 &lt;br /&gt;3. Islamic Brotherhood.&lt;br /&gt;It is a faithful feeling that springs from heart, it makes someone to love another in the cause of Allah and His messenger, He loves him for He (the second part) loves Allah and His Messenger and abides by their commandments. &lt;br /&gt; Sheikh Muhammad Al – Ghazaali concluded his speech on good brotherhood that “…so, the Islamic is the highest, greatest and fervent levels of brotherhood”. &lt;br /&gt;4. The highest and the best grade of Islamic brotherhood: &lt;br /&gt;It is acknowledge that human brotherhood is general and collective among the sons of Adam in view to their genesis of creation, and Islamic brotherhood is outstanding with sincere charity and eternal fortune, it is also common and comprehensive among individual Muslims regardless their racism, colour and language. Allah say: Qur’an 49:10 and His words the believers man and women are Awliyah (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors of one another …” Qur’an 9 : 71. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said in what Abu Hurrairah reported: “ Muslim is brother to another Muslim; thus he should not cheat, tell him false nor disgrace him. One Muslim is forbidden to another Muslim: his honour, property and the blood. Piety is kept here (i.e. in the heart); it is enough to assess someone as heinous and callous to see him demeaning his Muslim brothers dignity” and move up to love and endear to one’s Muslim brother in the cause of Allah and according to the tradition of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) they thus inherit virtues, righteousness, piety, preference over themselves, forgiveness, pardon, welfares and exchanging visit etc. many a hadith and quranic verse expatiates upon this: &lt;br /&gt;a. Pure heart, free mind, love in the cause of Allah is the list and the highest is preference over oneself. “ and those who before them had homes (in Al – Madinah) and had adopted the faith love those who emigrate to them and have no jealousy in the breast for that which they have been given, and give them ( emigrant) preference over themselves. Even though they were in need of that. And those saved from the covetousness of their own souls they are the ones that achieve prosperity “Quran 59:9”  &lt;br /&gt;Imam Malik (may Allah bless him) wrote in his Muwatta that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) reported that Allah said: my love is ordained for those who love one another because of me, for those who seat together because of me and for those who visit one another because of me “  &lt;br /&gt;5. Conditions of Islamic Brotherhood;      &lt;br /&gt;  Man is social by nature, so it is impossible for someone to live alone, rather he has to live with somebody else, and it is irrational to see a student having his course throughout his study in the institution without having a friend or course mate. From here, it is imperative for a Muslim student to be alert in searching for whom he is going to choose as his brother in these towns where Muslim students are already mixed up with other students who have different religion and dangerous thought. So, condition of Islamic brotherhood should be in order to gain Allah’s pleasure and should be based on true faith in Allah, it should not be intended in order to please none Muslim (pagan, Christians, Jew, secularist) but Muslim should handle him in such a way that he can influence or convince him to embrace Islam and if that does not work, it is better to sever his friendship; Allah says: (Qur’an 2:23)“Never will the Jews or the Christians be satisfied with thee unless thou follow their form of religion.” He also says (Qur’an 9:23) “O ye who believe! Take not for protectors your fathers and your brothers if they love infidelity above faith: if any of you do so they do wrong.” Anas narrate that the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “Whoever possesses three things will experience sweetness of faith, that he loves Allah and his prophet more than he loves someone else, that he loves not somebody because of Allah, that he hates to return to disbelieve just as he hates to be thrown into hell.” Reported by Bukhari.&lt;br /&gt;6. Right that Guiding Islamic Brotherhood: &lt;br /&gt;Right guiding Good Islamic Brotherhood are hereby enumerated &lt;br /&gt;a. Assisting each other to the degree that their money are put together and there will not be superiority among them.&lt;br /&gt;b. Muslim brother should always give aids and supports to his brother and the rapport should be unanimously done.&lt;br /&gt;c. He should hold bark his tongue from him except in kind word and good forgiveness. He should not mention his brother’s fault either in his or absence but in good. He should not try to reveal his secret and should not struggle to disclose what is in inner thought. He should not doubt his actions or reactions.&lt;br /&gt;d. He should always utter what would please him, he should usually call him with the best and beloved name to him he should let him know the nice things people do say about him and should not demean or disgrace him direct or indirect in the public. Imam Shaffi (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “whoever admonished his brother in secret, he has actually advised and beautified him. And whoever admonished him in public he has certainly exposed and disgrace him.”&lt;br /&gt;e. He should overlook his brother’s faults and pardon his mistakes. So he should not be emotionally influenced with flaws or wrong doings that might come from his brother but he should try to advice him and make him upright. Abu Dardaah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: ”when your brother changes and deprives himself form righteousness, do not boycott or neglect him; because your brother always stands firm or in firm.” &lt;br /&gt;f. He should fulfill the covenant of brotherhood with him. Even if his brother dies he should give the fulfillment to his heirs (wife, children, and parents) and relatives (kindred and others).&lt;br /&gt;g. He should not impose great tax or duty on him and should not lay burdens beyond his strength upon him and he should not scoff in any form at him. He rather supports or subsidizes him.&lt;br /&gt;h. He should always try to pray for him and his children and all relatives since there is no difference between him and his brother. The Prophet (S.A.W) said: “whoever prays for his brother in secret, the delegate angel would say: “Aameen, same to you.”&lt;br /&gt;i. He should hate hurting him, so that he should always look towards his favour and comfort; suffer for his suffering and rejoice for his joy.&lt;br /&gt;j. Brethren should fee that his brother are always with him for have in mind that his life is just inanimate without their aid said: “Muhmeen to Muhmeen is just like a building: parts support each other.” &lt;br /&gt;k. He should help him to actualize the truth and birr (righteousness or virtue); and this action should be aiming at causing the truth to triumph and bringing falsehood to nothing &lt;br /&gt;Honestly, the list of the rights of Islamic Brotherhood and Good company is not all over; So these aforementioned rights are just to give a clue in guiding our brothers to do good and help their brethren in virtue, righteousness and piety.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Etiquette of Islamic Brotherhood and Good Company: &lt;br /&gt; When brotherhood of faith replaces brotherhood of kinship between two persons their brotherhood would stay long, succeed and prosper. Especially when it enjoins Islamic tenets and divine injunctions, this certainly buttresses the previous rights, and someone might perceive intertwined similitude between them, these are also many among which are:- &lt;br /&gt;a. Sanity: Muslim brother ought to be in good sense and choose moderate person as a brother. &lt;br /&gt;b. Piety: Muslim brother should be pious, because according to the Prophet: “everyone shall surely practise the religion of his fellow, so, everyone should be aware who he is going to choose as a fellow.” &lt;br /&gt;c. Good Conduct: Accompany bad or naughty person is unanimously rejected in Islam. So, it is irrational for Muslim student who is seeking for knowledge and morality to accompany rude, radical, rough or tough guys. &lt;br /&gt;d. Abiding by the Book of Allah and the Tradition of the Prophet: Mainly diagnosis these two sources is very important in he movement and action of Muslim brother.&lt;br /&gt;e. Proclaiming the Love: Muslim brother should proclaim him love to his beloved brother; this habit was traditionally practiced among companions of the Prophet (S.A.W). So, he should let him know that he loves him in the cause and because of Allah. &lt;br /&gt;f. Having pleasure to see and meet him: Muslim brothers should be glad to see and meet his fellow; he should try to pour light here over his face from free and fair heart.&lt;br /&gt;g. Fulfillment of Promise: A good Muslim brother should always fulfill his promise not only with his brother in Islam but also with ordinary none Muslim people. &lt;br /&gt;h. Striving to achieve his goal: Serious, meaningful and faithful Muslim brother should struggle to make his brother succeed; a tangible Hadith of Prophet (S.A.W) had assured us of a great rewards it not only in this world but also in the Resurrection Day. &lt;br /&gt;i. Act of Humility: Though, this act is brief, is comprehensive in expression. Muslim brother should give respect to his fellow in all kinds of condition and situation. &lt;br /&gt;j. Exercising Patience: He should try to endure anger and tolerate inconveniences that may emerge from their partnership.&lt;br /&gt;k. Equity and Justice: He should prefer for his brother what he sees as the best and comfortable. He should not perceive superiority among them. So, he should live with him in equal and just manner. &lt;br /&gt;Finally, my fellow Muslim Student brother I would like to drop this golden verse in your faithful hearts and I believe that it is going to be digested and pondered upon, so that our society will breathe fresh air of sincerity, humility, harmony, virtue, equity, justice, good faith, help, honest, unity righteousness, piety …&lt;br /&gt;Islamic Brother and good company.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-8507639746454688686?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/8507639746454688686/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2011/10/islamic-brotherhood-and-good-company.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/8507639746454688686'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/8507639746454688686'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2011/10/islamic-brotherhood-and-good-company.html' title='Islamic Brotherhood and Good Company'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-1979520014966994673</id><published>2011-02-04T00:04:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-04T00:10:03.290-08:00</updated><title type='text'>WORDS TO PONDER</title><content type='html'>1. When Snake is alive, Snake eat Ants.&lt;br /&gt;    When Snake is dead, Ants eat Snake.&lt;br /&gt;    Time can turn at any time.&lt;br /&gt;    Don't neglect anyone in your life........ ...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Never make the same mistake twice,&lt;br /&gt;    There are so many new ones,&lt;br /&gt;    Try a different one each day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. A good way to change someone's attitude is to change our&lt;br /&gt;    own. Because, the same sun that melts butter, also hardens clay!&lt;br /&gt;    Life is as we think, so think beautifully.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Life is just like a sea, we are moving without end.&lt;br /&gt;    Nothing stays with us, what remain is just the memories of&lt;br /&gt;    some people who touched us as Waves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Whenever you want to know how rich you are? Never count&lt;br /&gt;    your currency, just try to Drop a Tear &amp; count how many&lt;br /&gt;     hands reach out to WIPE that- that is true richness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Heart tells the eyes see less, because you see &amp; I suffer lot.&lt;br /&gt;    Eyes replied, feel less because you feel &amp; I cry a lot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Never change your originality for the sake of others,  &lt;br /&gt;    because no one can play your role better than you. &lt;br /&gt;    So be yourself, because whatever you are, YOU are the best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Baby mosquito came back after 1st time flying.&lt;br /&gt;    His dad asked him "How do you feel?"&lt;br /&gt;    He replied "It was wonderful, Everyone was clapping for me!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     Now that’s what I call Positive Attitude&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-1979520014966994673?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/1979520014966994673/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2011/02/words-to-ponder.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/1979520014966994673'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/1979520014966994673'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2011/02/words-to-ponder.html' title='WORDS TO PONDER'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-4347344387903606864</id><published>2010-11-13T13:10:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2010-11-13T13:10:33.707-08:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;img style="visibility:hidden;width:0px;height:0px;" border=0 width=0 height=0 src="http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.11NXC/bHQ9MTI4OTY4MTg*MDQzMiZwdD*xMjg5NjgyNjI1MTM1JnA9Mzg2MzYxJmQ9Jm49YmxvZ2dlciZnPTEmb2Y9MA==.gif" /&gt;&lt;a href="http://s1197.photobucket.com/albums/aa436/Hindi-Movies-Online/Ahahid%20Kapor%20Wallpapers/?action=view&amp;current=shahid-kapoor-latest-photo-shoot-wallpapers-07.jpg" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i1197.photobucket.com/albums/aa436/Hindi-Movies-Online/Ahahid%20Kapor%20Wallpapers/shahid-kapoor-latest-photo-shoot-wallpapers-07.jpg" border="0" alt="wallpapers shahid kapor images shahid kapor pictures shahid kapor photo shoots"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-4347344387903606864?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/4347344387903606864/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/11/wallpapers-shahid-kapor-images-shahid.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4347344387903606864'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4347344387903606864'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/11/wallpapers-shahid-kapor-images-shahid.html' title=''/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://i1197.photobucket.com/albums/aa436/Hindi-Movies-Online/Ahahid%20Kapor%20Wallpapers/th_shahid-kapoor-latest-photo-shoot-wallpapers-07.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-7148461183786333281</id><published>2010-10-15T03:59:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-15T04:00:32.456-07:00</updated><title type='text'>THE WORTHY GIRLFRIEND!!!</title><content type='html'>Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adorned him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The girl's 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, 'I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'No!', replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her heart sank and turned cold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always&lt;br /&gt;turned to you for help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd boyfriend. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The girl looked up, and there was her first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God and continue with you throughout Eternity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thought for the day: Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pass this on to someone you care about - I just did.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-7148461183786333281?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/7148461183786333281/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/10/worthy-girlfriend.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7148461183786333281'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7148461183786333281'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/10/worthy-girlfriend.html' title='THE WORTHY GIRLFRIEND!!!'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-2870062999402909331</id><published>2010-10-15T03:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-15T03:39:54.428-07:00</updated><title type='text'>THE SPREAD OF ISLAM IN NIGERIA.</title><content type='html'>THE SPREAD OF ISLAM IN NIGERIA&lt;br /&gt;A HISTORICAL SURVEY&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Islam has been, and will be for a long time to come, one of the major challenges to Nigerians in the development of peace, justice and prosperity in the country. &lt;br /&gt;A survey of the history of Islam in Nigeria should examine how and why Islam has made the gains it has made. This involves its attraction to the religious sense of the people, its political and economic advantages, as well as the factor of coercion. Our survey also needs to observe which social classes were primarily affected by Islam and for what reasons, and why others were not affected. Islam also has many different tendencies. The one that threatens us most is that of violent intolerance. In our history we have to ask how and why this has taken root in certain circles. &lt;br /&gt;Islamic presence in the territory now comprising Nigeria can conveniently be periodized by its orientation first to the Sahara and North Africa, secondly to the Atlantic, and lastly its ubiquitous orientation in the period of independence. &lt;br /&gt;The period of trans-Saharan orientation&lt;br /&gt;        Trans-Saharan trade opens the way&lt;br /&gt;The raids into the central Sahara by `Uqba ibn-Nafi` in 667, told by Ibn-`Abdalhakam, (1) opened the route to Kanem and Borno. In each town he raided `Uqba imposed a tribute of 360 slaves. From that time until the end of the 19th century, the central African trade route specialized in slaves taken from the hinterland of Borno. &lt;br /&gt;Later, `Uqba's grandson `Ubaydallâh ibn al-Habhâb made a raid across the western Sahara and discovered gold. The demand for gold led to the emergence of the Ghana empire and the predominance of gold in the western trans-Saharan trade up to the 11th century. &lt;br /&gt;The Muslim traders lived in separate quarters that were a transplant of Muslim life in North Africa. Yet the Berbers of Sijilmasa and Tahirt (in Algeria) adopted Khârijite Islam because it maintained racial equality against the Arabs who considered themselves superior. They therefore easily interacted with West Africans and promoted a more or less tolerant Islam. The Arab Sunni Muslims, however, who followed Mâlikî law, had reservations about dealing with West Africans. al-Qayrawânî states, "Trading in hostile countries or in the land of the Blacks is disapproved." (2)&lt;br /&gt;Initial Muslim separatism soon gave way to a freeer mixing with West Africans. The Muslim traders needed African trading agents and associates and thus a community of African Muslims grew up around them. Trans-Saharan trade was a stimulus for state-formation in sub-Saharan Africa. African kings welcomed the presence of Muslim traders in their midst for several reasons: The Muslims brought the economic advantages of long-distance trade; these advantages would be greater or surer if the king accepted Islam himself, since it gave him citizenship in the Muslim umma with equality and brotherhood with his trading partners far away. He could then expect respect and trust from them in his dealings, putting to rest al-Qayrawânî's warning about trading in the land of the Sûdân. As Islam gained ground, large scale marketing and transport became a Muslim monopoly and this put pressure on traders to join Islam to become part of the club.&lt;br /&gt;The presence of Muslim scholars was welcome also because they provided an important element in the infrastructure of long-distance trade, namely, written communication in Arabic, the only international language of West Africa until the introduction of Portuguese on the coast in the 15th century and French and English in the 19th century. This made it possible to order goods from a distance and maintain a system of banking or credit. At the same time, Muslims provided the civil service in the expanding Sûdân kingdoms, because their literacy made them the only ones capable of administration. As Muslims literate in Arabic spread throughout the Sahel with the traders, there were few places of importance where a traveller might not find an interpreter and an introduction to the local society, thus eliminating the necessity of the "silent trade" between peoples of different languages.&lt;br /&gt;Complementing or competing with the traditional religion, Muslim clerics had a wide selection of religious medicine to offer, with specific prescriptions for every conceivable disease or any other problem of life, in the form of drink (with ink washed from a slate with Qur'ânic writing), talismans to wear, prayers to say, or other things to do. The Arabic text of the Qur'ân was looked upon as something powerful and beautiful itself, whose secrets could be mastered with patient study and initiation, as could the secrets of the traditional religion. Islamic rites of worship were also attractive for Africans because they were done in common and had an atmosphere of both dramatic festivity and seriousness. &lt;br /&gt;Muslims tolerated, temporarily, a king accepting Islam and at the same time continuing to practice the traditional religion. The king would want to straddle the fence this way because he was expected to be the father and high-priest for all his people. If a significant number of them or even a few prominent citizens adopted a particular religion that did not threaten his power, he would be expected to lead them in their religious practice, thus providing religious leadership to all groups, and not allowing it to go into political opposition.&lt;br /&gt;The kings found Islam a convenient support to their imperial authority, since it was a unifying ideology bridging the many tribes and presenting them with a wider brotherhood, citizenship or nationality. This produced the phenomenon of "state Islam", whereby Islam was controlled and used to promote the interests of the rulers.&lt;br /&gt;A psychological factor disposing people to convert to Islam is the international experience of those involved in long-distance trade. Traditional religion was bound to a village political system and culture with its local deities, spirits and ancestors, whereas inter-tribal economic and cultural interaction required a corresponding universalist social, political and religious structure. The Islamic view of the universe as governed by one God who is to be worshipped in one way by one world-wide community of believers explains why its champions were primarily the merchant class and the clerics who accompanied them. The farmers did not opt for Islam at all, and their rulers straddled the fence, since their interests were balanced between the traditional local society and the wider world that commerce and empire exposed them to. Pastoral peoples, like the Fulani, were as ambivalent as the kings, because of their attachment to the kinship bonds of their clans on the one hand, and on the other their exposure to a wider society which their migrations put them in contact with. (3)&lt;br /&gt;Accepting Islam would also give the king legal immunity from attack by other Muslims. Since raids by desert nomads upon the settled farmers were very frequent anyway, (4) and raids by Muslims upon unbelievers was encouraged by religion, according to the common belief of Muslims, a Sûdân king would have strong motivation to become a Muslim as a pre-emptory defence against attack.&lt;br /&gt;        The military factor&lt;br /&gt;Largely because of this last factor, the kings across the savanna, from Senegal to Lake Chad, finally declared for Islam in the 11th century. This was the result of the Murâbit (Almoravid) movement among the Sanhâja Berbers, a religious-military movement which resulted in an empire stretching from Senegal to Spain. The Murâbits were Sunni Muslims, with no respect for the lives or freedom of unbelieving Blacks. They themselves did not engage in warfare against them, but they and successor North African states armed and supported the new savanna Muslim states who waged jihâd against their pagan neighbours and either converted them or made them slaves, selling large numbers of them to North African merchants. &lt;br /&gt;The Mali and Songhay empires were the Western source of Islamic influence upon Nigeria. The Hausa states were late on the scene. Although Malian emisaries had come to Kano in the14th century, only in the 16th century did these states come into prominence with their kings' acceptance of Islam. Kebbi, as far as Mokwa, for a time was part of the Songhay empire, and Katsina was a tributary state. &lt;br /&gt;The Hausa states were drawn into the orbit of trans-Saharan trade by the slaves they had to sell, as a result of the constant wars among the numerous Hausa states. Besides skins, such as the "Moroccan leather" which comes from Sokoto goats, they possibly had some gold from the Akan fields through their traffic with Gonja for kola nuts. (5)&lt;br /&gt;During the period of trans-Saharan orientation, from the 8th to the 16th centuries, Islam had come straight across the Sahara to Borno where, from the 11th century it had Muslim kings. It also came to the Western savanna and, from Mali and Songhay, radiated to the Hausa states which had Muslim kings from the 16th century. &lt;br /&gt;The period of Atlantic orientation&lt;br /&gt;        The disappearance of empires and emergence of jihâd states&lt;br /&gt;The Songhay empire ended in 1591 with the Moroccan invasion. Afterwards the Moroccans ruled Tinbuktu for some time, while a variety of other small Muslim city-states continued to exist. But for a long time no empire came to replace Songhay, as Songhay had replaced Mali and Mali Ghana. Why? The problem was not in West Africa, but in North Africa. &lt;br /&gt;The main reason for the political decline of the West African savanna at this period was the Turkish occupation of most of North Africa, starting with Egypt in 1517 and Algiers in 1525. The northern coast, from Egypt to Algiers, became part of the Ottoman empire, which extended around the whole eastern and northeastern Mediterranean to the borders of Austria. The Mediterranean itself was an Ottoman lake and a self-contained economic zone. The Turks in North Africa, who controlled only the towns and land along the coast, were interested only in the Mediterranean world and Istanbul, leaving the Sahara to the bedouins and their shaykhs. (6) Trade on a small scale, however, continued with Morocco (outside Ottoman control) and the desert tribes, especially with Senegambia, which exchanged horses for slaves. (7)&lt;br /&gt;With the northern terminus of the trans-Saharan trade cut off, the sub-Saharan empires had no other choice but to die to die, that is, until the Atlantic trade provided a sufficient substitute to cause a revival. The coastal empires were the first to be born: Benin, Oyo, Dahomey, Ashante, the major ones, while the jihâd empires of the interior followed once they were touched by the reverberation of trade routes to the coast. &lt;br /&gt;In the mid-18th century the pagan Bambara set up a state based in Segu which expanded towards the Senegal river to tap its rich trading links with the Atlantic. Slaves were abundant in the Bambara states, and Muslim communities under Bambara rule took full advantage of the opportunity to supply slaves to European trading posts. &lt;br /&gt;As for the Muslims, the widespread situation of their living under pagan rule did not suit Muslim religious sensibilities. If occasionally they were penalized for the practice of their faith, more fundamentally they lived in a permanent state of fitna, a situation in which rule by a law other than Sharî`a constantly invited or permitted the common people to slip away from Islam. Classical Islamic theory allows only two choices for Muslims under such a situation, either to revolt and establish an Islamic state or to emigrate, making a hijrato a land where Sharî`a prevails. In either case leadership is required, and the widespread expectation that amujaddid, a divinely guided reformer, would come at the turn of every Islamic century prepared the way for accepting the leaders that presented themselves. &lt;br /&gt;The economic side of a jihâd was the chance to set up a state in response to a market attraction. The Atlantic trade stimulated supply routes going far to the interior, organized mainly by Mande speaking Dyula. The traders, according to Jobson in 1621, had free recourse through all places even in times of war. They also had some independent bases, as did the Dyakanke at Conjour. Besides these precarious arrangements, the combination of new trading opportunities and religious motivation resulted in a series of jihâds and full-fledged states in the western Sudan. &lt;br /&gt;There were the Zawâyâ in Senegal in 1673, Mâlik Sî in Bondu in the 1680s, the Fulani in Futa Jalon in1725, and in Futa Toro in 1776. From around 1800 Ahmad established a jihâd state in Mâsina, and Umar from 1852 established the Tukolor empire which covered most of the Western savanna. From 1870 Samori established a Malinke empire at the headwaters of the Niger, covering much of present-day Guinea and Ivory Coast. Again in Senegal Ma Ba in 1861 led a jihâd among the Wolof and Serer. &lt;br /&gt;All the earlier jihâd states had their economic basis in exporting slaves to Europeans on the Atlantic. After this market was abolished, there continued to be a good internal market for slaves, who produced legitimate export goods. (8)&lt;br /&gt;        The Sokoto jihâd and the fall of Oyo&lt;br /&gt;These jihâd states set the background for the Sokoto jihad. This can only be understood by first considering the Oyo empire. &lt;br /&gt;Whatever may be said of Ife as the "cradle of the Yoruba" or the greater early importance of other Yoruba states, old Oyo was the paramount Yoruba power from the 17th to the early 19th century. The capital, called Katunga in the time of Clapperton and otherwise known as Oyo Ile, was dangerously exposed to Borgu and Nupe enemies. In spite of its destruction in the 16th century it was reoccupied because of its commercial advantages which outweighed the risk its site presented. (9) It lay within the savanna zone where horses could be kept for easy communication with Nupe, Borgu and other Sudanic kingdoms to the north, with the forest kingdoms to the southeast and the coastal kingdoms of Ardrah and Whydah which were accessible through a corridor of savanna reaching to the sea. &lt;br /&gt;Horses obtained from Borno gave the Alafins the military capability to secure their borders against raids from Borgu and Nupe and to consolidate and expand their territory towards the south. The Oyo heartland supplied foodstuffs, notably grains and cattle in the northern parts and yams and palm oil in the southern parts, iron tools and weapons, pottery, and cotton cloth. (10) Such tribute enabled the Alafins to maintain a staff and an army; the populace, in return, enjoyed security and the prosperity generated by a wider market. &lt;br /&gt;In the second half of the 17th century Oyo began to expand to the southwest, all the way to the coast. The savanna conditions permitted the employment of cavalry, but the tsetse fly and the problem of providing fodder for the horses prevented Oyo from permanently conquering or occupying widespread territory in the south. (11)Yet some colonization of the coastal routes did take place, first in the Anago area, west of the river Yewa between Badagry and Porto Novo, at the beginning of the 18th century, then in the mid-18th century in the north of Egbado country, and finally in southern Egbado, including the towns of Ijanna and Ilaro. (12)&lt;br /&gt;Oyo's first dealings with Atlantic trade were through the independent kingdoms of Allada, Porto Novo and Hueda (= Whydah). Oyo raided Allada several times in the late 17th century, (13) presumably to secure better conditions for its own trading activity. Trade continued to be hampered, however, because Allada and Whydah were at war with each other from 1712 to 1722, (14) and in 1717-18 they declared royal monopolies over the slave trade in their respective ports. This action provoked Dahomey to annex Allada in 1724 and Whydah in 1727. (15)Dahomian control of these port kingdoms was a threat to Oyo's interests, and Oyo responded in two ways. First, it campaigned against Dahomey from 1727 to 1730 until Dahomey agreed to become a tributary state, keeping the whole of Whydah and most of Allada except Ajase (a Yoruba name for Porto Novo). (16) Secondly, because of the recurring instability of Whydah and Allada, it developed easterly trade routes leading to Badagry and Lagos through Egbado country. &lt;br /&gt;If we look for the motive of Oyo's intervention in or occupation of these coastal areas we find different opinions. For P. Morton-Williams, the reason is simple; it was to "participate in the coastal trade in slaves with the Europeans". (17) The same opinion was expressed by R. Smith: "The Oyo had become by the late seventeenth century exporters on a large scale of slaves for the Atlantic trade." (18) In spite of the evidence which these authors offer, I.A. Akinjogbin rejects this view altogether. He says, "While Oyo would have derived certain economic advantages from its conquests, it does not appear to have benefited much from the slave trade with the Europeans in the 17th century... For Oyo at that date the coast was really a backwater." (19) Akinjogbin does, however, admit that Oyo was heavily engaged in slave trading in the late 18th century. (20) He says: "The Oyo derived their wealth largely from the export of slaves, a trade which, since the beginning of the reign of Abiodun, seems to have been the main prop of Oyo economy." (21)&lt;br /&gt;The more recent work of Robin law argues more closely the case that Oyo's expansion to the Atlantic was motivated by the slave trade. The witness of Dapper in the 1640s, as well as documents of 1723, 1727 and 1753, refer to the kingdom of "Olukumi" (or one of its variants), meaning a Yoruba kingdom, likely Oyo, as a supplier of the considerable volume of slaves sold through Allada. (22) This evidence confirms the theory that Oyo had little local economic advantage to gain by annexing or exerting influence over neighbouring states towards the coast, since the products of these states were not significantly different from those of the Oyo heartland (apart from salt from evaporated sea water), all these states being in a savanna region. The only advantage of any consequence from this reach to the sea was the booming Atlantic trade. &lt;br /&gt;The slaves sold by Oyo were from four different sources: 1) native criminals, who were not so numerous, 2) war captives, who were the majority, (23) 3) slaves given in tribute by vassal states, such as Dahomey, who were not so many, and 4) slaves bought from Nupe, Borgu and even the Hausa states and Borno, especially in the late 18th century. Adams (1786-1800) refers to the large numbers of Hausa slaves for sale at Porto Novo. (24)&lt;br /&gt;Oyo paid for slaves and horses from the north with European goods obtained from the coast, particularly cowry shells, but also iron bars, cloth, earthenware, beads, rum and guns. (25) Guns, however, were not of much use in Oyo which relied mainly on cavalry and did not know how to use firearms effectively. (26) On the coast slaves were almost the only commodity the European traders were interested in, although Oyo may also have sold a little cloth, ivory and palm oil. (27)&lt;br /&gt;The main beneficiaries of Oyo's economic system were the Alafin, the trading magnates and their hangers-on. The majority farmer people benefited from the empire mainly because its peace and security permitted local markets to prosper. They were not heavily taxed, since the Alafin got food supplies for his retainers and the army from farms run by slaves. Ordinary people also could obtain imported iron for tools and cloth in exchange for kola and palm oil. Some found their fortune by joining the army or becoming retainers of big traders. As a powerful middleman between the north and the Atlantic, Oyo had to maintain an efficient trading complex which we could name "Oyo Incorporated". &lt;br /&gt;The jihâd which `Uthmân Dan Fodiye launched in 1804 to conquer large tracts of northern Nigeria had the religious motivation of purifying the ruling society from its casual attitude towards Islamic practice and its continued patronage of traditional religious practices. We can accept the fact that this was `Uthmân Dan Fodiye's motive for jihâd. Nevertheless this does not exclude economic or social motivations, but rather presupposes them, since Islam purports to be not only the right way to God but also the right formula for economic and social success. The all-inclusiveness of Islam makes Muslims expect that its establishment will bring a better and more prosperous society and a greater enjoyment of the goods of this life as well as those of the next. We may draw a comparison with the hajj, where along with its spiritual benefits, a pilgrim can also legitimately aspire to come home richer, either by trading on the way or by God's special favour. &lt;br /&gt;In the Sokoto federation, however, where slave raiding was important, slaves were used in much greater numbers to augment the population of the emirates and thereby increase local production and revenue for the aristocracy. (28) Export of slaves, nevertheless, was also important, both across the Sahara throughout the 19th century and to the Atlantic up to the middle of the 19th century when the Atlantic slave market ceased to function. (29) The wars among the Hausa states, while contributing to the slave market, in reality prevented the development of this market to any considerable extent, because the fighting made the long-distance trade routes unsafe and prevented the tapping of richer slaving grounds further off, especially in Bauchi and Adamawa, where pagans could be enslaved without any religious scruple. Any slave dealer could see the advantage or necessity of uniting Hausaland and the surrounding areas into a single commonwealth, so that traders and slavers could move freely. We can assume that these traders would be prepared to support any jihâd that promised to effect the desired political unification. (30)&lt;br /&gt;The jihâd of `Uthmân Dan Fodiye answered perfectly the aspirations of the slave dealers. Except for occasional rebellions which the Sokoto authorities had to repress, security for trade movement was assured throughout the emirates. Raids were systematically carried out against the "Middle Belt" pagan areas which provided all the centres of Fulani rule with a rich supply of slaves. What was done with these slaves?&lt;br /&gt;It seems the bulk of the slaves were absorbed locally, either in the cities for crafts or military service or in slave farm villages, increasing the population and prosperity of Hausaland. (31) These slaves adopted the Hausa language and the Islamic religion, and are estimated to have constituted the majority of the population of Sokoto and Kano. Exact statistics are not available, but a rough estimate of this high number is furnished by the literature written by the Fulani of the period, testimonies of European travellers, oral tradition and some studies of the city populations made at the beginning of the British period. &lt;br /&gt;Only newly captured slaves or refractory old ones were normally sold for export. Yet the number exported was considerable enough for slaves to become a standard currency in Hausaland and the surrounding areas, replacing cowries for any larger transactions. (32) Many slaves were exported through the Atlantic market. No doubt the profits and value of this trade in the late 18th century were well known in commercial circles of the north, since northern Muslim traders constantly frequented the routes to the coast. The same traders could report the advantage of securing control of these trade routes and integrating them into the Sokoto caliphate once this was established. Thus, in spite of their proximity, Sokoto and Gwandu made no serious attempt to conquer Argungu or the remnants of Gobir north of Illela. (33) On the contrary, all efforts were expended for a thrust to the sea, by a Muslim-Fulani take-over of Nupe and Oyo. Successful coups were engineered in both these states, mainly through the agency of local Muslim forces, but also with some assistance to Ilorin from Gwandu, the headquarters of the western part of the caliphate. The jihâd thrust to the south certainly catered to the demand for a workforce in the Caliphate heartland. But Samuel Johnson's phrase, "to dip the Qur'ân into the sea", (34) summarized the attraction of the Atlantic market. &lt;br /&gt;The mercantile party of the Sokoto confederation had every interest in pushing the conquest to the coast, since from the beginning of the 19th century until 1830 the Atlantic slave business actually increased. This was the result of increased demand from Brazil, Cuba and Southern United States, in spite of the stop of the slave trade by the British in 1810 and the French in 1815. (35) The Atlantic slave trade dipped sharply after 1840, until it was completely stopped by 1860. So the thrust of Sokoto to the sea was frustrated not merely by the intervening independent states and later British interference, but more importantly by the evaporation of the major economic motive. Expansion to the coast was also blunted by the rise of independent states in the former southern dependencies of Oyo, such as Ibadan, Abeokuta and the coastal city-states, so that the southern end of the trade routes was still subject to the exactions of middlemen and periodic instability and insecurity. &lt;br /&gt;Slaves were also exported across the Sahara. Once the jihâd was consolidated, the Sokoto confederation rivaled Borno for the trans-Saharan trade. Trans-Saharan trade increased throughout the 19th century, in spite of the growth of European trade on the coast. (36) Trans-Saharan slave exporting thrived, especially after the Atlantic slave market vanished. &lt;br /&gt;Yet the attraction of the Atlantic was later renewed because other advantages became apparent. One of these was the supply of firearms, which in the 19th century became not only more common but also indispensable for survival. Even after the British imposed their rule on the whole of modern Nigeria, the heirs to the Sokoto establishment continued to show concern for the route to Lagos and took every available means to assure that it remained open and secure for their trading operations. &lt;br /&gt;The ongoing jihâd conducted by the emirates of the Sokoto federation was a systematic slave-gathering operation. Most slaves were absorbed internally. But it is no accident that the Sokoto jihâd began at a time when the promise of a rich slave-exporting economy looked brightest, and that the extremities of the jihâd farthest from Sokoto were on the one hand the slave grounds of Adamawa and on the other hand the outlet routes controlled by Oyo. &lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately for Sokoto ambitions, just as its hold on the North was consolidated and Oyo destroyed, leaving no major obstacle to the sea, European demand for slaves ended. So the Sokoto confederation confined its attention to the North and the Sahara until trade in other commodities sparked its interest in the Atlantic once more. (37)&lt;br /&gt;        The colonial phase&lt;br /&gt;In the colonial period of Nigeria Islam was favoured by several factors: The first was the pax Brittanica which permitted Muslims and everyone to move freeling throughout the country in pursuit of trade or livelihood. Muslims were thus able to build mosques and interact with local people throughout the country, even though the system of sabon gari isolated them somewhat from the local culture. This was not the same for Christians, who were free to move around the country, but were restricted in building churches in Muslim areas and their priests were forbidden to evangelize Muslims. &lt;br /&gt;The second was the system of indirect rule for the north of Nigeria, that is, the former Sokoto and Borno empires. The closure of the Atlantic slave market explains the relative atrophy of the Sokoto caliphate in the second part of the 19th century, so that it had little power to resist a British take-over. Instead of sweeping away these Islamic governmental systems, as the French did in their territories, the British propped them up and increased their authority. This was notable especially in areas, such as the Middle Belt, where most of the rural people were not Muslims&lt;br /&gt;Outside the caliphate, Islam already had a foothold in Etsako and the Niger-Benue confluence area because of Nupe raiding, and was present in the Yoruba towns along the route to Lagos, such as Ogbomoso, Oyo, Ibadan, Sagamu, Ijebu-Ode and Abeokua. Hausa slaves in these towns became integrated in the social and political life of these towns, and many of the chiefs declared themselves Muslims, although they continued to be actively involved in the traditional religion. In these areas Islam came to symbolize the preservation of Yoruba identity against the intrusion of British culture. For the same reason, many Yoruba Muslims resisted Western education and this left the Muslim community at a disadvantage compared with Christians who were more progressive and successful in areas where education counts. &lt;br /&gt;While northern Islam has been firmly reformist and separatist with regard to anything non-Islamic, Yoruba Muslims have been more accommodating. The Yoruba people are first of all Yoruba, secondly Muslim or Christian and lastly Nigerian, so that in one family you can find both Muslims and Christians and some involvement in the traditional religion. But Yoruba Islam is more complex than it first appears. The liberated slaves returning from Brazil brought a rather progressive Islam, and their descendants have not only distinguished themselves in their personal careers, but also have led the way for development within the Muslim community. In the colonial period they led the way in building mosques, noted for their Portuguese-Brazilian style. (38) Yoruba Islam is not organized by the local government as it is in the north. Consequently there are innumerable societies that are the proprietors of mosques, and each has its own ideological orientation and style. There are the Lanose and Bamidele movements which reject anything western and whose men wear turbans and beards, while their women wear ileha or a black shroud covering everything, including their faces. There is the Ansar ud-deen which is also conservative, but promotes Western education. And there are branches of the Muslim Students Society and various other youth groups influenced by Saudi Wahhabi ideas calling for a reformed purist Islam. &lt;br /&gt;There is little information about religious change during the colonial period, but it is a fact that Christian schools attracted many conversions of Muslim students in the south of Nigeria. The only requisite in these schools was for all the students to take classes in religious instruction and to attend opening school prayers. Conversions occurred where parents had no objection or even encouraged their children. Some of these converts later reverted to Islam, while most Muslim students retained their religion together with an appreciation of their education, including the familiarity they acquired of the Christian religion. &lt;br /&gt;Since Indepedence&lt;br /&gt;Throughout their colonies, the British were careful to limit Arabian influence which could stir up an Islamic insurgency. The number of pilgrims was limited and official contacts were moderated. Independence changed that. To reward the north for their cooperation and compliance, as opposed to the agitation for independence in the south, the British made sure that the heirs of the Sokoto caliphate controlled the Northern Region. And the Northern Region was considered to have the majority of the population, so that it could rule the Federation alone. (39)&lt;br /&gt;Consequently the First Republic was headed by Tafawa Balewa, a northern Muslim. But real power was held by Ahmadu Bello, the Sardauna of Sokoto and Premier of the Northern Region. He made numerous trips around the Arab world and was Vice-President of the newly formed, Saudi sponsored, Muslim World League (Râbit al-`âlam al-islâmî). This brought him a lot of Saudi money to build mosques around the north and to distribute cloth to converts in his preaching tours. In a short time he pressurised many chiefs and prominent people to join Islam. At the same time his preaching rallies brought many thousands into the Islamic fold. &lt;br /&gt;Yet the Sardauna stirred up the opposition in the south by his northernisation policy in the north where skilled southerners held many of the best positions, and by his manipulating Yoruba politics in favor of Akintola and imprisoning Awolowo so as to foster his plan of "dipping the Qur'ân in the sea". The Sardauna's assassination in the 1966 coup effectively put an end to Muslim expansion in the North. Yet the massacre of southerners in the north and the civil war, though led by the Christian General Gowon, had overtones of subduing Christian influence in the country. Missionaries were banned or prevented from entering. Immediately after the war schools and hospitals were taken over, a Muslim demand fostered by sectarian rivalry among Christians. &lt;br /&gt;In spite of this blow to the Church, Islam did not grow, and Christianity saw a new and rapid expansion in the north. The temporary absence of a huge southern population in the northern towns permitted the Church to concentrate on the millions of people who had not yet opted for Islam or Christianity. The Church's success was phenomenal, since now most of these people are Christian. In the south as well, in spite of the loss of schools, and partly because of a rise of pentecostal evangelism, Muslims continue to convert to Christianity. &lt;br /&gt;Northern Muslims, however, continued to hold the reigns of government and make things difficult for the Church. Murtala Muhammad's coup against Gowon in July 1975 and the Dimka coup against Murtala Muhammad in 1976 resulted in a purge of Christians from the army leadership, in spite of the fact that Obasanjo was allowed to take the presidency. Yar'adua in the background seemed to hold the real power. Throughout 1977 there was an intense debate about providing for a Federal Sharî`a court of appeal in the new Constitution. The Constitutive Assembly in April 1978 rejected this. The Muslim minority walked out, but later agreed to abide by the new Constitution for the meantime. &lt;br /&gt;In the background to these political events, Abubakar Gumi, the influential spiritual heir of the Sardauna, was mentor to the Izala society (Jamâ`a izâla al-bid`a wa-iqâma as-sunna).. These both espoused Saudi Wahhabism and spread intolerant views and action, not merely against Christians, but also against traditional Muslims who belonged to the popular Sufic brotherhoods, the Tijaniyya and Qadiriyya. (40) They were for full Sharî`a, not as enacted or administered by a Nigerian government, but as the supreme and only law of the Islamic umma, which was their true nation. (41)&lt;br /&gt;With the death of Gumi, the Izala dwindled and the radical side of Islam was captured by the Shî`ites, led by a one-time student in Iran, Ibrahim Zakzaki. He did not press specifically Shî`ite tendencies but rather rallied people to the sovereignty of an Islamic community ruled only by Sharî`a. The Nigerian nation meant nothing to him. His followers were actively confrontational and he was imprisoned for sedition. His followers then became more violent and, together with women with babies on their backs, assaulted police stations, even while being mowed down by machine gun fire. This movement was an embarrassment for the northern Muslim establishment. &lt;br /&gt;The Muslim Students Society was founded in Lagos in 1954. It grew into a national organization and is affiliated with the World Assembly of Muslim Youth which was founded in 1972 under the auspices of the OIC. For a time the movement was radicalized by the Izala, rejecting the Nigerian Constitution and anything secular. Now one meets a wide range of attitudes in this Society.&lt;br /&gt;Another radical manifestation of Islam was the Maitatsine movement, which erupted in Kano in 1980, in Maiduguri in 1982, in Jimetu in 1984 and Gombe in 1985. Much has been written about this movement, but there is virtually no first hand information on what it and its founder stood for. Muslims were embarrassed about it and attributed all sorts of heterodox beliefs and practices to it, but I have never seen an interview of a Maitatsine member on what the movement stood for. I see it as a recrudescence of Khârijism, an egaltarian movement that holds that anyone who is unfaithful to the practices of Islam has abandoned Islam and should be fought or killed. This phenomenon resurfaces in Muslim society whenever there is widespread social injustice. &lt;br /&gt;The 1979 election of Shagari, which many called a "selection", ensured a northern leadership committed to the promotion of Islam. In the 1983 re-election, Muslim leaders openly called on Muslims to vote only for Muslims. Although he was overthrown by a coup on 1 January 1984, the army leadership of Buhari, Babangida and Abacha continued to promote Islam, even though their personal lives were unconstrained by Islamic restrictions. Babangida stirred up a hornet's nest by introducing Nigeria to "full membership" in the O.I.C. (42) Another Constitutive Assembly under Babagida rejected once more the Muslim demand for a Federal Sharî`a court of appeal, and would have removed Sharî`a from all levels of government but for Babangida's military over-ruling of this action by the Christian majority. The rallying of Muslims and Christians around Abiola and his lost cause in 1993 and their united opposition to the Abacha regime influenced the electoral success of Obasanjo in 1999. (43) Both Abiola and Obasanjo attracted the strong but long suppressed Hausa opposition once led by NEPU and Aminu Kano. &lt;br /&gt;Obasanjo, the old general, realized the dangerous situation of the army, and in his first week in office retired all officers he thought could cause trouble. The army lost its Muslim domination. So too did many of the crucial ministries of the government. Northern Muslims began to complain of marginalization, and in response introduced full Sharî`a into many northern states. Obasanjo did little to oppose this. In fact, on 24 February 2001 he went to Cairo to attend a meeting of the "G8", another grouping of Muslim states (Egypt, Malaysia, Indonesia, Iran, Nigeria, Turkey, Pakistan, Bangladesh) which Abacha brought Nigeria into in 1997. (44)&lt;br /&gt;The Sharî`a cause, always supported by Saudi Arabia, has long been a convenient device to rally popular support for politicians of questionable character. But which popular support? Sharî`a, understood in its most radical sense, has appealed to the young Muslim intelligentia, that is, university students and their academic leaders, many whom learned their ideas from studying in Saudi Arabia or going there on pilgrimage. It also has appealed to the unemployed urban poor who have been persuaded that it is the simple answer to their problems. Whipped up by religious fervour, they are willing to overlook the oppressive policies of their leaders once they don the mantle of a champion of Sharî`a. The Muslim business community may support it under pressure, but their heart is against it, because it spells turmoil, and that hurts business. &lt;br /&gt;The proponents of Sharî`a in the north are loud in emphasising that Sharî`a is only for Muslims. They cannot be sincere, because it is well known that the Sharî`a which they propose contains many provisions discriminatory against Christians. Harassment of Christians in the North has been on the increase. Christians are fully sensitized to the danger Sharî`a poses for them, since full Sharî`a puts them firmly in a second-class status in society. The case of St. Dominic's Church, Dashi, outside of Gusau, is a case in point. The governor broke into the church and declared it an Islamic school. Under criticism from CAN, he denied that he did so. Then the church was quietly destroyed one night. The Zamfara government defended this action on the false basis that all the people there had become Muslims. (45) Besides frustrations of their right to worship, Christians are forced to abide by the Muslim code prohibiting alcoholic beverages. &lt;br /&gt;There is considerable debate within the Muslim world about the meaning of Sharî`a, and many Muslims are opposed to the variety that is advertized by Saudi Arabia and pushed in Nigeria. (46) They see the Saudi call for God's rule as opposed to man's rule as the antithesis of democracy. This is because the slogan "God's rule" is really a cover for rule by the Sharî`a professionals, who dictate their interpretation of God's law, rather than allow people to follow their own conscience. Moreover, religious people have yet fully to realize how religious agitation is often a cover for other non-religious interests, such as economic, political and ethnic causes. (47) It may be that Nigerian Muslim society, like Iran, needs a heavy dose of Sharî`a to get a taste of what it is really like. Then, as now in Iran, there will be agitation to throw off the rule of Sharî`a dictators. &lt;br /&gt;Nigerian Islam first came with trade and ideas across the Sahara, then the Atlantic commanded attention with trade and new ideas from Brazil, Europe and Ameria, finally, with Independence, Islam has a global exposure. Satellite TV and internet open the most closed Sharî`a harems to a world of ideas, not all of them good. But interaction and consequent evolution are inevitable.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-2870062999402909331?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/2870062999402909331/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/10/spread-of-islam-in-nigeria.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/2870062999402909331'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/2870062999402909331'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/10/spread-of-islam-in-nigeria.html' title='THE SPREAD OF ISLAM IN NIGERIA.'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3748939495789432904</id><published>2010-07-13T16:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T16:33:56.103-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ISLAMIC STUDIES</title><content type='html'>THE VIRTUES OF KNOWLEDGE IN ISLAM&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowledge is the information, understanding and skills that you gain through education or experience Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The prophet (SAW) said “knowledge is our lost heritage and wherever we find it we should grab it. Therefore it is compulsory for the Muslim to seek for knowledge from the cradle to the grave.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We should travel to any length in search of the prophet (SAW) said we should seek for knowledge even if it is in China. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Allah says if one who worships devoutly during the hours of night prostrating himself or standing (in adoration) who takes heed of the here after, and who places his hope in the mercy of his Lord. (like one who does not): Say, “Are those equal, those who know and those who do not know? His those who are ended with understanding that receive admonition )39:9) Narrated by Anas Ibnmalek: The messenger of Allah (SAW) said “whoever goes out searching for knowledge has the reward for him that marched out for fighting for Allah case until he returns “At-termiz( the prophet (SAW) said “seeking for knowledge is mandatory on Muslim” (Bukhari and muslim).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The knowledgeable are heirs to the prophet of Allah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The prophet (SAW) said “the scholar are the inheritor of all the prophets of Allah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KNOWLEDGE THAT WE USE&lt;br /&gt;The prophet (SAW) said “the best of you is he who has the knowledge of Quran and impact on another.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The prophet (SAW) said “after a man dies 3 things remain within. The provision he made, knowledge he has that people benefit from it, his righteous deed on the good child left than pray for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;SEEKING KNOWLEDGE FOR WE FEAR OF ALLAH&lt;br /&gt;Narrated by Laa’ah Ibn Malek “I heard the messenger of Allah (SAW) saying “do not learn knowledge just to be a scholar to argue with the fool,  nor to attract people toward oneself. He that does this Allah admits into hell fire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowledge is utmost in our religion as Allah says in in Hadith Qudsiyy that we should know Him before we worship Him as we cannot worship Him without knowing Him (Hadith Qudsiyy)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3748939495789432904?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3748939495789432904/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/islamic-studies.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3748939495789432904'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3748939495789432904'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/islamic-studies.html' title='ISLAMIC STUDIES'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3448031730683326271</id><published>2010-07-13T16:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T16:26:05.013-07:00</updated><title type='text'>IT IS A PITY! NIGERIAN TEAM WAS KICKED OUT.</title><content type='html'>The Nigerian Super Eagle, Under 27 Team was kicked out of the FIFA World Cup South African 2010. After series of preparation and moves for development Nigerian still fell down and crashed. Do you remember? that they changes from Nigerian Football Association (NFA) to Nigerian Football Federation (NFF) in the name of development. They replace many of the N.F.A officials and also some Super Eagles players were also removed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Nigerian Football Federation developed different polices as they assume office amongst is the&lt;br /&gt;expensive appointment of Lass Lagerback the Sweden coach. He came in with own style of selectivity,&lt;br /&gt;He evicted some the boys from the camp. He asked those managing injury  to stay home and expend&lt;br /&gt;resources on training and preparation all in the name of getting the Cup. But it was not realized, but it &lt;br /&gt;was a story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The African Nation hosted Cup was a challenge for the whole world. The German company put up a ball&lt;br /&gt;to challenge the professional footballer of the 2010 World Cup. They produce a new ball for the&lt;br /&gt;tournament called JABULANY, very perfect, too roundish and very difficult to play for both the goalkeepers and the players. It made lost in the world cup and gave them unforgettable headache. The&lt;br /&gt;secret behind the failure of big teams like Brazil, Italy, England, Argentina, Ghana and others is the &lt;br /&gt;JABULANY Ball that the players did not understand. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t blame Nigerian Super Eagle, blame JABULANY, &lt;br /&gt;A blow to the African Union, all the African teams were kicked out but, kudos to Black Stars of Ghana&lt;br /&gt;that reached quarter final. Don’t blame these teams, blame JABULANY.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I for see that Germany team who is so familiar with the ball will come either 1st  2nd or 3rd as they cannot&lt;br /&gt;blame the ball since they are used to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please my fellow Nigerian, don’t loose hope in these boys. I agreed that we want to get young players&lt;br /&gt;from the academy but nevertheless don’t lose hope in Super Eagles of Nigeria, think positive about them,&lt;br /&gt;Nigerian Government dissolving the N.F.F is not the solution, only that we should believe in your&lt;br /&gt;resources, your coach, your team and always re-energize them. Then we will have the cause to say a &lt;br /&gt;gooooooooooal!!!.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3448031730683326271?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3448031730683326271/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/it-is-pity-nigerian-team-was-kicked-out.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3448031730683326271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3448031730683326271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/it-is-pity-nigerian-team-was-kicked-out.html' title='IT IS A PITY! NIGERIAN TEAM WAS KICKED OUT.'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-7088436005437923687</id><published>2010-07-13T16:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T16:14:34.667-07:00</updated><title type='text'>YOUR SUCCESS LIES IN YOUR NAME</title><content type='html'>It is the human custom to give name to their children at the seventh or eighth day of his birth, they give name to their other belongings apart from child, for identification purpose. But name serves more purpose than this. Have you forgot that Allah taught Adam the name of everything and made him a respected one in the sight of the angels but Shaytan received the wrath of Allah for not obedient. When you know the&lt;br /&gt;name of things, you are excel in knowledge. Just know the names of things and do not forget again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Allah gave name to many of His servants from the scripture like Maryam Yahya Ahmad and others. He  &lt;br /&gt;called them by their names like Yaa Musa, (O Musa!), Yaa Muhammad (O Muhammad!). If name is not&lt;br /&gt;important God will not call His servant by their name in the scriptures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Prophet also said the responsibility of a good parent on a child is to give a good name to the child,&lt;br /&gt;like the name of Allah, e.g Abdullah Abdul-Rahman. The name of the prophets like Ibrahim, Musa,&lt;br /&gt;Dawud. And the name of the righteous like Uthman, Alli, Shittu e.t.c.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other contemporaries of names is what the Arabic call Quniya or Laqob. Your alias and your&lt;br /&gt;attributes. The A.K.A (alias) of Abdullah Ibn Abu Quafa is Abu Bakr (The Female Father) but, everyone&lt;br /&gt;knows him as Abu Bakr. The attribute of the prophet is Abu Qasim (The Father of Qasim) or Rasulillahi &lt;br /&gt;(The Messenger of Allah).&lt;br /&gt;It is good to give yourselves good name, good nick name and good attribute like a “golden child, humble&lt;br /&gt;boy, a child of paradise or the righteous friend”. The name you call yourself materializes, look at our &lt;br /&gt;president Good Luck Jonathan. The luck work for him. It was accounted that: &lt;br /&gt; In his primary school, he was the assistant class captain, the luck work for him he became the class captain.&lt;br /&gt; The same thing happened to him in his secondary school&lt;br /&gt; The luck also work for him when he was the assistant senior boy, he became the senior boy&lt;br /&gt; In the University he was the assistant class governor, the luck gave a chance to him he became the class governor.&lt;br /&gt; He was the Vice President of the Student Union, his luck materialized he became the President of the Union&lt;br /&gt; Look at him again in politics, from Commissioner     Deputy Governor      The Governor     Vice President,    now he has become the President of Federal Republic of  Nigeria, the highest cadre.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-7088436005437923687?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/7088436005437923687/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/your-success-lies-in-your-name.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7088436005437923687'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7088436005437923687'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/your-success-lies-in-your-name.html' title='YOUR SUCCESS LIES IN YOUR NAME'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-5526488339288433315</id><published>2010-07-13T15:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T15:51:29.396-07:00</updated><title type='text'>NIGERIA  AT  50</title><content type='html'>They said Nigeria gained her Independence in October1, 1960,after years of  colonization. Our Forefathers had suffered with  their sweat and blood to realize this independence. But , it’s a pity, we adopted after years of suffering, we went on adopting a killing system of administration “DEMOCRACY” :’A government of  the people,by the people and for the people’ but suppose  to be a  government of  Allah, by the people of Allah and for the general people’.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After 50 years of zero achievement, yet the government is still proposing to lavish billion of naira to celebrate the day. From the word of  a man , he said  I  will clock 50 this year, and I was born  in October 1, 1960 for the fact that I am the same age with Nigeria, I can’t spend up to one hundred thousand to celebrate the day after my years of achievement.&lt;br /&gt;Nigeria is a giant of Africa in the book. Nigeria is believed to be spoilt by the deceitful political leaders. During Campaign, they make different manifestoes, that, we will make Nigeria affordable, accessible, conducive and we will make it a London for all. All these are words of mouth. “Nigerian politicians don turn us to mumu”. After all we experienced in June 12, and the suffer that will experienced during Obasanjo, Babangida and Abacha’s terrain, yet they still rotate power within their strength, all their family and caucus still want to rule us. ”God go judge all of una very soon”    &lt;br /&gt;I will suggest that Nigeria should adopt these at their 50 years:&lt;br /&gt;1. To realize their shortcomings (mistakes) both leaders and followers and do away from them.&lt;br /&gt;2. To go back to Allah in repentance.&lt;br /&gt;3. To re-brand their perception, thinking and their direction about Nigeria.&lt;br /&gt;4. Above it all, Nigeria should adopt no other system again beside the system of GOD . It is not a violent law but a peaceful and comforting law for a quick and lasting salvation.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-5526488339288433315?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/5526488339288433315/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/nigeria-at-50.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5526488339288433315'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5526488339288433315'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/nigeria-at-50.html' title='NIGERIA  AT  50'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-9100378800131757913</id><published>2010-07-01T03:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-05T02:23:18.669-07:00</updated><title type='text'>NOTABLE WORDS</title><content type='html'>1. At the end, the only people who fails are those who never try again.&lt;br /&gt;2. You never rise above the light, you are looking up to.&lt;br /&gt;3. Great men are ordinary men, with extra-ordinary determination.&lt;br /&gt;4. One man problem is another man’s opportunity.&lt;br /&gt;5. What you will become must first be seen in your mind.&lt;br /&gt;6. If you cannot fly run, if you cannot run walk, if you cannot walk crawl, by&lt;br /&gt;   all means just keep on moving.&lt;br /&gt;7. Don’t think little, otherwise you will remain little and move with little.&lt;br /&gt;8. Life is like a teacher the more you live, the more you learn.&lt;br /&gt;9. When you know little more than others, You will lead them without stress.&lt;br /&gt;10.If you marry a woman because of her beautify, is like eating a cow because&lt;br /&gt;    of its noise.&lt;br /&gt;11. He who waste his time, waste his life.&lt;br /&gt;12. A person who is not growing, is not worthy to exist.&lt;br /&gt;13. The diseases of ignorant can only be cured in the school of knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;14. It is better to discover why you were born, before you die.&lt;br /&gt;15. Impossibility can only be found in the dictionary of a fool.&lt;br /&gt;16. Don’t become a prey, despite you pray.&lt;br /&gt;17. If you fail to destroy bad habit, definitely it would destroy you.&lt;br /&gt;18. If a man has no purpose for living, then is not worthy to live.&lt;br /&gt;19. Champions are those who never quit and never accept defeat.&lt;br /&gt;20. Those who fails do not plan to fail, But fails, to plan.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-9100378800131757913?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/9100378800131757913/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/notable-words.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/9100378800131757913'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/9100378800131757913'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/07/notable-words.html' title='NOTABLE WORDS'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-5537081711114886492</id><published>2010-06-30T03:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-30T03:03:29.709-07:00</updated><title type='text'>God is Great!</title><content type='html'>A man reached 100 years of age and he faced a disease; he could not urinate. The doctors informed him that he was in need of an operation to cure this disease. He agreed to have the operation done as the problem was giving him much pain for days. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When the operation was completed, his doctor gave him the bill which covered all the costs. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The old man looked at the bill and started to cry. Upon seeing this the doctor told him that if the cost was too high then they could make some other arrangements. The old man said “I am not crying because of the money but I am crying because &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God let me urinate for 100 years and He never sent me a bill.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-5537081711114886492?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/5537081711114886492/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-is-great.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5537081711114886492'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5537081711114886492'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-is-great.html' title='God is Great!'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-7580760821104482226</id><published>2010-06-29T10:14:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T10:17:28.632-07:00</updated><title type='text'>STORY ABOUT BEING PATIENCE</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Patience, they say, can cook soft a hard stone. We should learn to be patient always. Below is good example of the need to be patient&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted. As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat Disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound QURAN, with the young man's name embossed in gold. Angrily, he raised his voice to his father and said, "With all your money you give me a QURAN?", and stormed out of the house, leaving the QURAN. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a Telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search through his father's important papers and saw the still new QURAN, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the QURAN and began to turn the pages. His father had carefully underlined a verse;&lt;br /&gt;As he read those words, a car key dropped from the back of the QURAN. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and &lt;br /&gt;the words...PAID IN FULL. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected? I trust you enjoyed this. Pass it on to others. Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-7580760821104482226?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/7580760821104482226/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-about-being-patience.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7580760821104482226'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/7580760821104482226'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-about-being-patience.html' title='STORY ABOUT BEING PATIENCE'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-4672729138022812909</id><published>2010-06-29T09:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-05T01:32:54.920-07:00</updated><title type='text'>"Man will always be with his beloved ones even after death"</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Sheikh Dahhan rahimahullah was a famous Aalim of Makkah Mukarramah&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He narrated this incident that a man died in the city. His heirs decided to bury him in the grave of a pious Aalim of Deen, who had died recently. In those days it was a custom in Makkah Mukarramah that many people were buried in a single grave one after the other. Thus they started digging the grave. As they dug deeper the corpse that lay therein was exposed. People saw that instead of the Aalim of Deen’s body, there lay a body of a European girl.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;BODY SWOP&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;The people were astonished. Where did the Aalim of Deen’s body go? How had the girl’s body come here? By chance there was a European Muslim tourist among the group of people who had come to bury the man. He said that he knew the girl. She was the daughter of a Christian Frenchman who had quietly embraced Islam. He had taught her religious books and that is how he knew her. She had fallen ill and died. The people then realized that as she had been very religious her dead body had appeared in Makkah Mukarramah, the most sacred of all places.&lt;br /&gt;But what about the Aalim of Deen, they wondered. What had happened to his body? That could not be explained. Then someone said that the body of the Aalim of Deen’s was lying in the girl’s grave. As this was a plausible explanation, the people asked the tourist to ascertain the truth when he returned to France after performing Hajj.&lt;br /&gt;After performing Hajj, accompanied by an acquaintance of the Aalim of Deen, the European tourist returned home. He went to the girl’s parents and explained everything to them. They were amazed. They could hardly believe that their daughter’s body which had been buried in France could suddenly appear in Makkah Mukarramah. Still they agreed to open their daughter’s grave and find out.&lt;br /&gt;When the grave was opened they were astonished to see that instead of their daughter’s body it really did contain the corpse of the Muslim Aalim of Deen who had been buried in Makkah Mukarramah. And not only that, but the body lay torn and cut up in pieces.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;REASON&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;Sheikh Dahhan went on to say that somehow or the other, the European tourist managed to send us the news that the Aalim of Deen’s body was undoubtedly in the girl’s grave in France. The people in Makkah Mukarramah now became very worried. It was true that the girl had been really religious as was apparent by the fact that her body was transferred to a sacred land but what had the Aalim of Deen done that he had been punished so? &lt;br /&gt;They decided to go and ask the Aalim’s wife, for surely she would know. He was a very religious man, she told them. He always said his prayers and read the Quraan. He even used to offer his Tahajjud prayers. But, the people said, there must have been something which he did which aroused the wrath of Allah Ta’aala. Well, she said thinking hard; he used to say when he needed a bath - that the custom of the Christians is praiseworthy indeed that they didn’t have to take a bath after sleeping with their wives at night - . Well, that’s it, the people nodded. That’s why Allah Ta’aala had sent his body to the graveyard of the people whose custom he liked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;LESSON&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;Dearest readers! Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam has said: “A Man shall be with him whom he loves.” Explaining this Hadith Ulama have written that Abdullah Ibn Masood radhiallahu anhu said that Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam was asked: “What do you say about the person who loves a saintly man but cannot equal him in deeds?” In answer Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told him this Hadith. (Ma’arif ul Quraan, vol 4, pg 550)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thus we come to know that a person may not fully adopt the characteristics of the person he loves but because of his love only he shall be dealt with like him.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-4672729138022812909?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/4672729138022812909/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/man-will-always-be-with-his-beloved.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4672729138022812909'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4672729138022812909'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/man-will-always-be-with-his-beloved.html' title='&quot;Man will always be with his beloved ones even after death&quot;'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-6302482196798523180</id><published>2010-06-29T08:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T08:31:08.467-07:00</updated><title type='text'>99 CLUB</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back.&lt;br /&gt;I say ...&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Don't steal the limelight from others to glorify yourself. Give credit where credit is due !&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once upon a time, there lived a King who, despite his luxurious lifestyle, was neither happy nor content.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One day, the King came upon a servant who was singing happily while he worked. This fascinated the King; why was he, the Supreme Ruler of the Land, unhappy and gloomy, while a lowly servant had so much joy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The King asked the servant, 'Why are you so   happy?'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The man replied, 'Your Majesty, I am nothing but a servant, but my family and I don't need too much -  just a roof over our heads and warm food to fill our tummies.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The king was not satisfied with that reply. Later in the day, he sought the advice of his most trusted advisor. After hearing the King's woes and the servant's'story, the advisor said, 'Your Majesty, I believe that the servant Has not been made part of The 99 Club.' &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'The 99 Club? And what exactly is that?' the King inquired.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The advisor replied, 'Your Majesty, to truly know what The 99 Club is, place 99 Gold coins in a bag and leave it at this servant's doorstep.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When the servant saw the bag, he took it into his house. When he opened the bag, he let out a great shout of joy... So many gold coins!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He began to count them. After several counts, he was at last convinced that there were 99 coins. He wondered, 'What could've happened to that last gold coin?  Surely, no one would leave 99 coins!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He looked everywhere he could, but that final coin was elusive. Finally, exhausted he decided that he was going to have to work harder than ever to earn that gold coin and complete his collection.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From that day, the servant's life was changed. He was overworked, horribly grumpy, and castigated his family for not helping him make that 100th gold coin. He stopped singing while he worked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Witnessing this drastic transformation, the King was puzzled. When he sought his advisor's help, the advisor said, 'Your Majesty, the servant has now officially joined The 99 Club.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He continued, 'The 99 Club is a name given to those people who have enough to be happy but are never contented, because they're always yearning and Striving for that extra 1, saying to themselves: 'Let me get that one final thing and then I will be happy for life.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can be happy, even with very little in our lives, but the minute we're given something bigger and better, we want even more! We lose our sleep, our happiness, we hurt the people around us; all these as a price for our growing needs and desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's the "99 club".&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-6302482196798523180?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/6302482196798523180/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/99-club.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6302482196798523180'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6302482196798523180'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/99-club.html' title='99 CLUB'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3059260496284758567</id><published>2010-06-29T02:02:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-29T02:12:22.960-07:00</updated><title type='text'>INTRODUCTION OF FOOTBALL IN NIGERIA</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;The Introduction:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The game of football started in year 1800. The Federation International Football Association&lt;br /&gt;(FIFA) was founded on the 21ST OF May, 1904. In Nigeria when the game started, it was not&lt;br /&gt;well recognized. It was introduce into the country by the European visitors and Missionaries.&lt;br /&gt;The game was first introduced to the residents of Calabar, Port Harcourt and Lagos which were&lt;br /&gt;the cities in the coastal areas of the country the Europeans visitors on tourism. They was&lt;br /&gt;introduced into the missionary schools. It is on record that the colonial official played a match&lt;br /&gt;in Lagos, in 1841.&lt;br /&gt;In 1906, clubs started an these were organized as town / city teams, clubs competition for the&lt;br /&gt;Beverly up was introduced in Calabar in 1906. The formation gradually spread to other pail of&lt;br /&gt;the country. The first organized football Association started in Lagos District Amateur Football&lt;br /&gt;Association (LDAFA) in the Year 1932.&lt;br /&gt;The Ibadan Football Association followed with its formation of other association in the country.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3059260496284758567?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3059260496284758567/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/introduction-of-football-in-nigeria.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3059260496284758567'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3059260496284758567'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/introduction-of-football-in-nigeria.html' title='INTRODUCTION OF FOOTBALL IN NIGERIA'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-843577256179258055</id><published>2010-06-26T05:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-26T06:28:34.059-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Work is the antidote for poverty</title><content type='html'>I find this  piece hard to keep to myself alone. Please bear with me if you can’t read Yoruba well but the English interpretations should do you a big deal.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;For some of us who recognize it, this was a poem we all learned by heart while in elementary school and I believe it is one of the driving forces in our lives as we grow. It reflects on the yoruba deep philosophy of the real value of life and element of real success. It seems all these values have eluded us with time. For those of us who appreciate the beauty of yoruba composition, we can not but feel touched once again with these lines of poem.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;This was translated to English for teaching some Yoruba children&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;  &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Enjoy it….&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;YORUBA&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ENGLISH TRANSLATION&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ISÉ NI ÒÒGÙN ÌSÉ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Work is the antidote for poverty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; MÚRA SÍ ISÉ RE, ÒRÉÈ MI&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Work hard, my friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; ISÉ NI A FI Í DI ENI GIGA&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;work is used to elevate one in respect and importance (Aspiring to higher height is fully dependent on hard work).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ A KÒ BÁ RÉNI FÈYÌN TÌ, BÍ ÒLE LÀ Á RÍ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;if we do not have  anyone to lean on, we appear indolent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ A KO RÉNI GBÉKÈLÉ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;if we do not have anyone to trust (we can depend on).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; À A TERA MÓ ISÉ ENI&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;we simply work harder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; ÌYÁ RE LÈ LÓWÓ LÓWÓ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;your mother may be wealthy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÀBÁ SÌ LÈ LÉSIN LÉÈKÀN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;your father may have a ranch full of horses.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ O BÁ GBÓJÚ LÉ WON&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;if you depend on their riches alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; O TÉ TÁN NI MO SO FÚN O&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;you may end up in disgrace, I tell you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; OHUN TÍ A KÒ BA JÌYÀ FÚN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;whatever gain one does not work hard to earn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; KÌ Í LÈ TÓJÓ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;usually does not last.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; OHUN TÍ A BÁ FARA SISÉ FÚN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;whatever gain one works hard to earn.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; NÍ Í PÉ LÓWÓ ENI&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;is the one that lasts in one's hands (while in ones possession).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; APÁ LARÁ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the arm is a relative&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ÌGÙNPÁ NÌYEKAN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the elbow is a sibling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ AYÉ N FÉ O LÓNÌÍ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;you may be loved by all today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ O BÁ LÓWÓ LÓWÓ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it is when you have money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; NI WON Á MÁA FÉ O LÓLA&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;that they will love you tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; TÀBÍ TÍ O BÁ WÀ NÍ IPÒ ÀTÀTÀ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;or when you are in a high position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; AYÉ Á YÉ O SÍ TÈRÍN-TÈRÍN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;all will honor you with cheers and smiles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; JÉ KÍ O DI ENI N RÁÁGÓ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;wait till you become poor or are struggling to get by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; KÍ O RÍ BÁYÉ TI Í SÍMÚ SÍ O&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and you will see how all grimace at you as they pass you by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; ÈKÓ SÌ TÚN N SONI Í DÒGÁ&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;education also elevates one in position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; MÚRA KÍ O KÓ O DÁRADÁRA&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;work hard to acquire good education.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; BÍ O SÌ RÍ ÒPÒ ÈNÌYÀN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and if you see a lot of people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; TÍ WÓN N FI ÈKÓ SE ÈRÍN RÍN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;making education a laughing stock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; DÁKUN MÁ SE FARA WÉ WON&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;please do not emulate or keep their company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; ÌYÀ N BÒ FÓMO TÍ KÒ GBÓN&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;suffering is lying in wait for an unserious kid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; EKÚN N BE FÓMO TÓ N SÁ KIRI&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;sorrow is in the reserve for a truant kid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; MÁ FÒWÚRÒ SERÉ, ÒRÉÈ MI&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;do not play with your early years, my friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MÚRA SÍSÉ, OJÓ N LO&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;work harder; time and tide wait for no one.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Let’s pass it on to our children.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;May God delight our hearts&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-843577256179258055?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/843577256179258055/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/work-is-antidote-for-poverty.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/843577256179258055'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/843577256179258055'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/work-is-antidote-for-poverty.html' title='Work is the antidote for poverty'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-677558442504305538</id><published>2010-06-26T05:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-26T05:48:22.196-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Beauty of Mathematics !!!!!!!</title><content type='html'>1 x 8 + 1 = 9&lt;br /&gt;12 x 8 + 2 = 98&lt;br /&gt;123 x 8 + 3 = 987&lt;br /&gt;1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876&lt;br /&gt;12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765&lt;br /&gt;123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654&lt;br /&gt;1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543&lt;br /&gt;12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432&lt;br /&gt;123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 x 9 + 2 = 11&lt;br /&gt;12 x 9 + 3 = 111&lt;br /&gt;123 x 9 + 4 = 1111&lt;br /&gt;1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111&lt;br /&gt;12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111&lt;br /&gt;123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111&lt;br /&gt;1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111&lt;br /&gt;12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111&lt;br /&gt;123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9 x 9 + 7 = 88&lt;br /&gt;98 x 9 + 6 = 888&lt;br /&gt;987 x 9 + 5 = 8888&lt;br /&gt;9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888&lt;br /&gt;98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888&lt;br /&gt;987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888&lt;br /&gt;9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888&lt;br /&gt;98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brilliant, isn't it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And look at this symmetry:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 x 1 = 1&lt;br /&gt;11 x 11 = 121&lt;br /&gt;111 x 111 = 12321&lt;br /&gt;1111 x 1111 = 1234321&lt;br /&gt;11111 x 11111 = 123454321&lt;br /&gt;111111 x 111111 = 12345654321&lt;br /&gt;1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321&lt;br /&gt;11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321&lt;br /&gt;111111111 x 111111111 = 12345678987654321&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, take a look at this... 101%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Equals 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have all been in situations where someone wants you to GIVE OVER 100%.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How about ACHIEVING 101%?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What equals 100% in life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's a little mathematical formula that might help answer these questions:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If:  A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is represented as:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If: H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;.....It is wisdom to trust an unknown future in the hands of a known God!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-677558442504305538?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/677558442504305538/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/beauty-of-mathematics.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/677558442504305538'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/677558442504305538'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/beauty-of-mathematics.html' title='Beauty of Mathematics !!!!!!!'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-1244679103333518268</id><published>2010-06-26T05:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-26T05:31:33.526-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Self-Criticism</title><content type='html'>It is necessary for an individual to pause at the end of each day that has passed, in order to check himself and run through his achievements: What has he done in the course of the day? Why has he done it? What has he omitted? Why has he omitted it?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;How excellent it would be if this self-criticism were to take place before one retired to bed.&lt;br /&gt;This period of self-criticism and appraisal should certainly be counted among man's moments of progress; it is a moment when man impartially sits as a judge over himself and reviews his yearnings and inclinations, his instincts and motivations. It is a moment when the believer appoints, out of his conviction, a policeman to watch over himself, an investigator to probe him, and a judge to condemn or acquit him. In this way he progresses from the state of "the soul that incites to evil" to the state of "the self-reproaching soul" which reproaches its owner whenever he plunges into sin, or falls short of expectation.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;If a believer fails to observe this brief period of soul-searching daily, then he should at least try to do so once every few days, or once a week. In this way, he draws up his life balance sheet, depicting to him his (spiritual) assets and liabilities.&lt;br /&gt;A believer should also have a longer period of this practice at the end of each month, and an even longer period at the end of the year, when he bids farewell to one year and prepares for and welcomes another. This is the time to critically review the past and plan for the future. This is the (spiritual) equivalent of his final accounts for the year.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-1244679103333518268?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/1244679103333518268/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/self-criticism.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/1244679103333518268'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/1244679103333518268'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/self-criticism.html' title='Self-Criticism'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-6115130197661876331</id><published>2010-06-26T05:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-26T05:16:55.427-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Plan your time you can become an haafis of Quran before you die</title><content type='html'>A fool at forty is a fool forever, If the date I am using as my birthday is right I think I should be almost getting to forty now. I feel cheated by my aspiration, I believe world has fooled me. I started primary school in 1979 till now I am still in school. I was in a gathering where virtues of becoming an hafis of Quran was discussed, then I was thinking something must be mentioned about virtues of having (Dip.). It was at this junction that a thought strike my mind that I have been decieved by world&lt;br /&gt;My fellow muslims, if you are in the same sitaution like me, start to add this recipe to your programme before it is too late.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;This schedule calculates how long it takes you to memorize the Quran according to your memorization ability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;If you memorize 1 aya each day, you will be able to memorize the Quran in 17 years and 7 months and 9 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 2 ayas each day, you will memorize the quran in 8 years 9 months and 18 days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 3 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 5 years 10 months and 13 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 4 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 4 years 4 months and 24 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 5 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 3 years 6 months and 7 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 6 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 2 years 11 months and 4 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 7 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 2 years 6 months and 3 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 8 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 2 years 2 months and 12 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 9 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 11 months and 12 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 10 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 9 months and 3 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 11 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 7 months and 6 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 12 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 5 months and 15 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 13 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 4 months and 6 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 14 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 3 months and 0 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 15 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 2 months and 1 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 16 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 1 months and 6 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 17 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 1 year 10 months and 0 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 18 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 11 months and 19 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 19 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 11 months and 1 day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 20 ayas each day you will memorize the quran in 10 months and 16 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And if you memorize 1 wajh each day, you will memorize the Quran in 1 year 8 months and 12 days&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you memorize 2 wajh each day, you will memorize the Quran in 10 months, 6 days&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-6115130197661876331?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/6115130197661876331/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/plan-your-time-you-can-become-haafis-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6115130197661876331'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6115130197661876331'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/plan-your-time-you-can-become-haafis-of.html' title='Plan your time you can become an haafis of Quran before you die'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-4343301632157321657</id><published>2010-06-26T04:36:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-26T05:02:38.620-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A story worth sharing</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;This story is VERY touching. It brought tears to my eyes. Let’s appreciate our loved ones and try make them happy the more!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 years ago, an accident took my beloved wife away and very often I wonder, about her asleep in death? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all I heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bedsheet and blanket!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Boy , was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return.. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks....but I didn't want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practice his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud too!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the Christmas spirit is in every passer-by... Christmas carol s and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of&lt;br /&gt;the year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's reply was: "I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters.. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to say..... I told my son, " Son, mummy is asleep in death, so in future, if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldn't help opening the letter before they turn to ash.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And one of the letters broke my heart....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Mummy,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell him the real reason. Mummy, every day I see Dad missing you and whenever he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room. I think we both miss you very much. Too much for our own good I think. But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appear?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the females with children:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the married men:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business nor clients.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In this society, no one is indispensable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious children and your loved ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dont let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-4343301632157321657?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/4343301632157321657/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-worth-sharing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4343301632157321657'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4343301632157321657'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/story-worth-sharing.html' title='A story worth sharing'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-9171153276168778477</id><published>2010-06-25T11:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-25T11:46:40.654-07:00</updated><title type='text'>WHY MALPRACTICE IS EVIL</title><content type='html'>Malpractice can be defined as a wrong doing or any illegal act which against the rules and regulations binding an organization or society. Malpractices are detected in different organization and different professions, as every organization have rules that are guiding them, all the members of the organization or society must adhere to taste rules to avoid unwanted actions against them. These rules are the policy in which the organization follows. It is refers to as the “ethics in practice”. However, any malpractice that is contrary to these ethics are refers to as malpractice. In schools, one malpractice that is very common is EXAMINATION MALPRACTICE. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The students are now in the habit of doing illegal practice in order to pass. Some pay people to impersonate on their behalf to write the exam and others run after the link out questions before the date of the examination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The consequence of these illegal practices are enormous, The students that indulge in these acts end up carrying about the certificate that they would not be able to defends some of them fail during the periods of interview to get job and those who are able to scort free put the organization they work with into an endless regret, due to their failure to perform. Moreso, many students that rely on these shortcuts have turned negative attitude to learning, they are so lazy in their academics as they are assured of success. It destroys the students’ learning stimulus readiness to work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In view of the student that are caught with these malpractices they gain automatic expellation, certificate turn down and bring shame to their home. Some parents are today heart broken because of the act. These student carry the shame about for the rest of their lives.&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;Finally, it is better to work hard and succeed than to cheat or look for any shortcut. Remember, there is always penalty for every cheats.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-9171153276168778477?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/9171153276168778477/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-malpractice-is-evil.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/9171153276168778477'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/9171153276168778477'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-malpractice-is-evil.html' title='WHY MALPRACTICE IS EVIL'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3367114915438212249</id><published>2010-06-24T05:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-24T05:18:34.485-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Wealthy Goals Advice!</title><content type='html'>1.&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The objective of entering paradise and avoiding hell can only be achieved&lt;br /&gt;  By adequately pursuing the mission of the worship and the vice gerents of&lt;br /&gt;  God. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;– &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;purpose&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;  Set your goal for life and Aspire to make a Success of your life.&lt;br /&gt;  To achieve Success in your Academic pursuit. Set a goal or target for yourself&lt;br /&gt;  So that you can follow it up. But the important thing is that you can’t start with&lt;br /&gt;  goals; you must start with purpose. The reason why most goal setting programs&lt;br /&gt;  fail is because they are linked to a purpose you care about. The purpose of goal&lt;br /&gt;  setting is to focus our minds and our imaginations. Writing your goal down in &lt;br /&gt;  black &amp; white forces you to focus on them.&lt;br /&gt;  Always aim to be at the fore-front. Do not be a back – benches.&lt;br /&gt;  Never accept defeat because no defeat is final until you stop trying.&lt;br /&gt;  You are the architect of your life, design and build it well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Always cultivate the habit of being happy and make people happy.&lt;br /&gt;- Failure is a stepping stone to success so never give up failure.&lt;br /&gt;- Be in the company of people who can help you to attain success because &lt;br /&gt;- an adage goes thus:- The ornithological specimen of the same plumage&lt;br /&gt;- congregates within the same proximity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And above all, be prayerful and be conscious of God because “the timidity of the&lt;br /&gt;Omnipotent is the commencement of sagacity.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3367114915438212249?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3367114915438212249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/wealthy-goals-advice.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3367114915438212249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3367114915438212249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/wealthy-goals-advice.html' title='Wealthy Goals Advice!'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3609142085415948358</id><published>2010-06-23T02:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-23T02:49:11.534-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ESSAY FROM A CHILD</title><content type='html'>A teacher from Primary School asks her students to write a essay about&lt;br /&gt;what they would like God to do for them..At the end of the day while marking&lt;br /&gt;the essays, she read one that made her very emotional. Her husband, that had&lt;br /&gt;just walked in saw her crying and&lt;br /&gt;asked her:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What happened?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She answered&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh God, tonight I ask you something very special: Make me into a&lt;br /&gt;television. I want to take its place. Live like the TV in my house. Have&lt;br /&gt;my own special place, And have my family around ME.&lt;br /&gt;To be taken seriously&lt;br /&gt;when I talk.... I want to be the centre of attention and be&lt;br /&gt;heard without interruptions or questions. I want to receive the same&lt;br /&gt;special care that the TV receives when it is not working. Have the company&lt;br /&gt;of my dad when he arrives home from work, even when he is tired.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I want my mom to want me when she is sad and upset, instead of&lt;br /&gt;ignoring me... And... I want my brothers to fight to be with me... I want&lt;br /&gt;to feel that family just leaves everything aside, every now and then, just&lt;br /&gt;to spend some time with me. And last but not least make it&lt;br /&gt;that I can make them all happy and entertain them...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lord I don't ask you for much... I just want to live like every TV&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At that moment the husband said:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'My God, poor kid. What horrible parents!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She looked up at him and said:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'That essay is our son's!!!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3609142085415948358?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3609142085415948358/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/essay-from-child.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3609142085415948358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3609142085415948358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/essay-from-child.html' title='ESSAY FROM A CHILD'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-3703034208109653731</id><published>2010-06-17T12:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-17T12:58:41.437-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Need for Guidance and Counselling Services in a School System</title><content type='html'>The importance of Guidance and Counselling Service in a school system cannot&lt;br /&gt;be overemphasized; be it nursery, primary, secondary or higher institution. Its &lt;br /&gt;importance is derived from the fact that the aims of education as a whole cannot&lt;br /&gt;be achieved or attained effectively without guidance services or programmes.&lt;br /&gt;Hence, the above-named Educational Consult is introducing to you her valuable&lt;br /&gt;services in this respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;The need for the above consult could be seen from the understanding of the following: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meaning of Education, its Aims, what is Guidance and Counselling services? And&lt;br /&gt;How it meets the Aims of Education?&lt;br /&gt;Meaning of Education&lt;br /&gt;Education simply, is a systematic process of developing a person intellectually,&lt;br /&gt;morally and physically in order, to equip him or her with the means of solving life’s&lt;br /&gt;problems as, they present themselves, both as an individual as well as, a member of a social setup.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Guidance and Counselling Services&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Guidance and Counselling on the other hand, is a programme of services to &lt;br /&gt;individuals and students based on their need and is designed to help them adjust to their environments. It is a process by which an individual learns about himself and his environment so that he can learn better.&lt;br /&gt;Aims of Education&lt;br /&gt;Education is considered not only as a means of personal advancement but also &lt;br /&gt;valued as an asset of fundamental importance to the society. Most people&lt;br /&gt;consider formal education as a passport to jobs in modern time. Students are&lt;br /&gt;expected to realize their aspirations and find gainful employment; parents and &lt;br /&gt;teachers expect intellectual, moral and physical development of the young ones.&lt;br /&gt;In view of these various expectations, numerous statements of objectives exist as&lt;br /&gt;a means of clarifying the aims of education. Significantly, the aims of education&lt;br /&gt;include a wholistic development of the individual intellectually, morally, physically,&lt;br /&gt;and socially. Education aims at strengthening the individual’s adaptation to&lt;br /&gt;attitudes, occupations and traditions of various people. A curious survey of the&lt;br /&gt;new National Policy on Education (1985) clearly highlights the following as the&lt;br /&gt;aims and experiences:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The inculcation of national consciousness and national unity&lt;br /&gt;2. The inculcation of the right type of values and attitudes for the survival of&lt;br /&gt;        the individuals and the Nigerian society.&lt;br /&gt;3. The training of the mind in the understanding of the world around him.&lt;br /&gt;4. The acquisition of appropriate skills, abilities and competence both mental &lt;br /&gt;        and physical, as essential needs for the individual to live in and&lt;br /&gt;        contribute to the development of his society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition to the explanation of guidance &amp; counselling, guidance is the&lt;br /&gt;assistance given to individuals to understand themselves in relation to their&lt;br /&gt;environment, so that they can make use of what they know about themselves and&lt;br /&gt;their environment to take wise and intelligent decisions and make adjustments&lt;br /&gt;where and when necessary. Even when there is no choice possible, guidance&lt;br /&gt;services may help enables him to cope successfully with the inevitable.&lt;br /&gt;Guidance is needed and necessary not just in crises situations but essentially it&lt;br /&gt;should be available to normal young stars (primary school children) to help them&lt;br /&gt;in coping with normal developmental problems. Developmental guidance is based&lt;br /&gt;on the premises that the aim of guidance is not merely the amelioration of the&lt;br /&gt;trauma or the prevention of mistales but rather, the maximum development of the&lt;br /&gt;individuals and organizations.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-3703034208109653731?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/3703034208109653731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/need-for-guidance-and-counselling.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3703034208109653731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/3703034208109653731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/need-for-guidance-and-counselling.html' title='The Need for Guidance and Counselling Services in a School System'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-2675188854397220458</id><published>2010-06-17T01:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-17T01:58:37.515-07:00</updated><title type='text'>U T M E</title><content type='html'>One of the counseling services is to provide information services in such a way that will enhance&lt;br /&gt;an individual understanding of the issues in his surroundings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Information service is generally the collection and dissemination of valid and usable information&lt;br /&gt;relating to the educational. Vocational and Personal Social needs of the individual.&lt;br /&gt;Zerran and Riccio (1962) Sees Informational service as the assistance given to a student to under-stand, accept and utilize his abilities, aptitude interest and attitudinal pattern, in relation to his aspirations .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This implies that information service is designed to help each students adjust to his environment,&lt;br /&gt;development, development his total educational and Vocational Programme (Olayinka, 1986)&lt;br /&gt;Information services are needed to plan the future putting into consideration opportunities and&lt;br /&gt;personal abilities or characteristics.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) was established by Decree or an a it No 2 of 1978, subsequently amended by Decree (AIT) No 33 of 1989 and 1993. By the virtue of the Act, the Board is empowered to be responsible for the - general control over the conduct of Matriculation Examinations into all degree awarding, Universities, Polytechnics, Innovative&lt;br /&gt;Enterprises Institutes, Monotechnics and Colleges of Education in Nigeria. – appointment of&lt;br /&gt;examiners, moderators, Invigilator, Members of the subject panels and committees and other&lt;br /&gt;persons with respect to Matriculation examinations. - Placement of suitably qualified candidates in the tertiary Institutions in collaboration with those institutions. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The board conducted the first matriculation examination for entry into all Degree – awarding, other Degree – Awarding Institutions in 1979, Polytechnic and colleges of Education in 1991, Monotechnics in 1998 and in Innovation Enterprises Institutes in 2009 .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is often said that a well informed individual make a more effective plans for the future. Hence,&lt;br /&gt;If individuals are informed, of all the available Job opportunities and the qualifications needed,&lt;br /&gt;they can therefore plan more realistically their future careers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Information on general guidance’s that will assist the individual to make correct and right decision on seeking admission into Nigerian Tertiary Institution. It is aim to serve as Educational Information which has been defined by Norris, Zeran and Hatch (1976) as: ……………. Valid and useable data about all types of Present and Probable future educational or training opportunities and requirement including Curricular and Co-Curricular offerings, requirement for entrance and conditions and problem of student life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was further amplified by Ipaye (1986) to mean the information relating to education which&lt;br /&gt;students need with respects to location of available educational institutions course or subjects&lt;br /&gt;offered and entry requirements as well as list of fees and grading system.&lt;br /&gt;However this publication only centered now on giving correct information about Jambs, new Policy of UTME, Courses, Institutions among other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jamb clearly stated in the introduction to syllabuses for the 2010 UTME that prospective candidates are advised to seek the advice of their teachers, Parents / Guidances and guidance or&lt;br /&gt;career Counsellor in their choice of elective subjects for the UTME.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-2675188854397220458?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/2675188854397220458/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/u-t-m-e.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/2675188854397220458'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/2675188854397220458'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/u-t-m-e.html' title='U T M E'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-4388765098779390988</id><published>2010-06-17T01:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-17T01:38:27.392-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Pre-marital Sexuality and Teenage Pregnancy among Teenagers in some Secondary Schools</title><content type='html'>Adolescents or children who are within the age of 13 and 18 that are supposed to be in senior secondary school or fresher in higher institutions. This stage is very challenging and full of stress; individual start to develop self concept, a period of Ego identity, a period when the question ‘who am I’ is usually asked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sexual networking are various attempts made by the adolescents  to initiate their age groups to sexual activities such sexual initiation includes adolescents’ friendship, teenage dating relationship and experimentation.&lt;br /&gt;Adolescent depends on adults to guide their future vocational devices but due to the inconsistent standard of most adults, many children exhibit identity crises and role confusion such that they seek solace in peer groups. The absence of parent at home leads to many disturbing problems of crime and juvenile delinquency in which premature sexuality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The genesis of premarital sex and teenage pregnancy can be traced to many factors in the society such as home.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Child grows and matures, he/she spends most of his/her early years at family home, and it is invariably influenced by whatever happens in the family as he naturally regards the family as his reference group and the senior members in the family as the significant figures. The social production of masculinity and feminity is often begun at home through socialization practices, which aim to instil specific personalities and identities into male and female children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Family is the most important context because its major function in socialization, care of children and most importantly identities take shape.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are inability on the part of the parent to adequately provide for their children needs especially the females. Also, desire for high class results in early sex in exchange for money and other rewards from men.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Unwanted/Unprepared Pregnancy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Premarital sexual relationship, whether for “love”, access to social resources or other complicated motives are exposing young female students to the risk of unwanted pregnancy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, these adolescents do not know and appreciate the possible complications and consequences that may result from premarital sex. The first possible consequence is unplanned and unwanted pregnancy. The unwanted teenage pregnancy causes some problems to the girls such as academic setback, psychological torture, and financial handicap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The economic downturn in Society has contributed in no small way to the bad portrait of heterosexuality among our adolescents and youth. .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those parents, who probably because of poverty have little or nothing to offer the children, let these children loose very early in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Negative outside influences (low income, lack of parental involving, increased emotional vulnerability, which normally results in increasing destructive demographic factors and with low expectation of future success. Some young people go into prostitutes in order to make money. So, also in many places, young people are lured or forced into prostitution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Twist in adolescent networking through the prints and electronic media that show pornographic pictures, blue films, immoral home video, adverts, uncensored television programmes like the one shammed in “The Glamour Girls” the nonchalant attitudes of the government to commercial sex hawkers whom the adolescents see daily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sight appears to be a potent stimulus for men, advertisers and publishers of erotic play use this by using women’s breasts suggested through clothing, or naked, and her buttocks are considered to be sexually arousing to men.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Scientific and technological development refers to the gain and progress in science and technology that have led to industrialization, such developments affect not only what people wear, eat and use for transportation but also their thinking processes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The adolescents are exposed to lots of questionable sexuality education through electronic and print media. On the internet, they browse pornographic, websites, they watch pornographic or blue films on the television screens and read sensational novels and magazines which induce them to want to practicalise without thinking about the aftermath of the activity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stigmatisation&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This explain various acquisition and labelling receive from members and non members by the teenager, who involve in premarital sexual and teenage pregnancy etc. they argued that this lead to uncountable desire for sexual acts and result to depreciation of their target goal and loss of direction in life. For a girl, she may become an object of n ridicule before others and give embarrassed nick name such as “cheap girls”  “food for all” “public dog” “No control” “only girl” “for bed”, but not suitable to be a wife.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Abortion And Other Health Hazards&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Abortion is criminal, sinful can reduce fertility in marriage proper. Also, people loathe getting involved in heterosexual relationship with victims of STDs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Engaging in crime abortion, causes damage to reproductive organs, infertility and if the abortion is not properly carried out it leads to death.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Statement Of The Problem&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is of great concern the issue of pre-marital sexuality and teenage pregnancy among teenagers in our secondary schools in Society being the commerce nerve centre of the Continent. On a daily basis, this is being read and heard both on prints and electronic media.  The act has eaten deep into the fabrics of the school values and becoming part and parcel of the school system, as well as, some communities are now accepting it as an act that as come to stay.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Purpose Of The Study&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;The purpose of the study is summarised as follows:&lt;br /&gt;-        To find out the level of relationship between gender and pre-marital sexuality&lt;br /&gt;-        To find out the peer influence on premarital sexuality and teenage pregnancy&lt;br /&gt;-        To find out the effect of socio-economic status of the parent on pre-marital sexuality and&lt;br /&gt;          teenage pregnancy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Research Hypotheses&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.     There is no significant difference between gender and pre-marital sexuality.&lt;br /&gt;2.     There is no significant relationship between peer influence  and pre-marital sexuality and&lt;br /&gt;         teenage pregnancy&lt;br /&gt;3.     There is no significant relationship between socio-economic status of the parent and pre&lt;br /&gt;         marital sexuality and teenage pregnancy.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-4388765098779390988?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/4388765098779390988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/pre-marital-sexuality-and-teenage.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4388765098779390988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/4388765098779390988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/pre-marital-sexuality-and-teenage.html' title='Pre-marital Sexuality and Teenage Pregnancy among Teenagers in some Secondary Schools'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-5109596851577278898</id><published>2010-06-17T00:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-17T00:57:52.111-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Success Keys</title><content type='html'>Prayer and Fasting are the key to success in this world and the herafter; There are two acts that no Belivers worshiper does consistently but that he will enter Heaven. And though they are easy, only few people perform them: 1) After each of the prayers, say I thank God ten times, God is Great. This makes one hundred and fifty (daily extollments) by tongue, and one thousand five hundred (good deeds) in the scale.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-5109596851577278898?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/5109596851577278898/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/success-keys.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5109596851577278898'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/5109596851577278898'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/success-keys.html' title='Success Keys'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-314026797417219504.post-6641218900297249533</id><published>2010-06-16T10:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-16T10:36:07.495-07:00</updated><title type='text'>BITTER FACTORS</title><content type='html'>HE WHO CRAVES FOR THE WORLD CAN NEVER SEES THE FULFILMENT OF HIS DESIRE WITHOUT EVEN PREPARED FOR HIS ETERNAL LIFE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is no royal road to Success in life&lt;br /&gt;It is only by unceasing toll and undivided&lt;br /&gt;Attention that one ascend the ladder&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowledge will accumulate largely if only a little is added to it daily&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hardwork never Kills, it only reforms, so keep on working&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you do your work well and Good your Conscience justifies it better, there is no need to be a hypocrite because hypocricy is not found in an upright man’s dictory&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is a stages of Obstacles and Calamities; For if you dont fight this war, you have to fight that war, and whether you fight this or that war: BE PREPARED MORE WAR AHEAD.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The greatness comes not when things go always good for you. But the greatness comes when you're really tested, when you take some knocks, some disappointments, when sadness comes. Because only if you've been in the deepest valley can you ever know how magnificent it is to be on the highest mountain...He who laugh last, laugh best.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/314026797417219504-6641218900297249533?l=wealthygoals.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/feeds/6641218900297249533/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/bitter-factors.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6641218900297249533'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/314026797417219504/posts/default/6641218900297249533'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wealthygoals.blogspot.com/2010/06/bitter-factors.html' title='BITTER FACTORS'/><author><name>LEGACY</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
